Has the person you’re currently dating asked you to stay the night for the first time? Maybe they’ve implied it and you’re still trying to figure out if they meant come over as friends or come over and rock my world between the sheets. Whatever’s going on, the following tips will help make this night extra special and totally memorable for both of you. So hold on tight, relax and get ready for an exciting night that you both won’t soon forget.
Pack An Overnight Bag (But Leave It In The Car): If you’re not quite sure if you’re staying over or if you’re only going over for dinner, you’re better off packing an overnight bag but leaving it in the car until you get your cue to stay. Don’t assume you’re going to spend the night unless it’s seriously implied or said. Otherwise, you may come off as being too forward and that can kill your chances of ever staying over.
Relax And Have Fun: If you haven’t had sex in a while and you have a feeling that sex is coming, don’t let it turn you into a nervous mess. Some people get so worked up about what could happen that they end up letting it ruin their time. Relax and have fun. If you spend the night and sex happens, it’ll be much more enjoyable if you are relaxed enough to enjoy it. If you’re a nervous bundle of energy, your date will likely be turned off or they might even think that you’re put off or scared about going through with things. Just take ten deep breaths and convince yourself that you’re in. If the person invited you over and you’re already over there, then things are going great. Smile and let the tension fall away. You’ve already won the game.
Be Considerate: If things do come down to sex, don’t rush into things. Instead, take your time and makes sure to please the other person as much as possible. This will help make the evening more memorable for that person and you’ll set it up to get pleased yourself. Give the person plenty of room on their side of the bed when sleeping over, too. And don’t steal the covers.
It Should Be Special: Whatever you do, don’t let on that you do this all the time. Even if you do, let the person believe that this time was special. When someone invites you to stay the night for the first time, they’re trusting you to come into their home, treat them with respect and they’re inviting you to share some intimate moments. They likely don’t do that for just anyone, so don’t take their hospitality and affection for granted. Let the person know that this time was special and memorable and it’ll likely happen again and again.
Good luck and make sure you treat the other person how you would want to be treated if you invited someone into your home for the first time. Have a great first evening with your special someone. May the night be full of fireworks for both of you.